Sunday, August 9, 2015

BRIDEZILLA POST #1: Initiation

Assalamualaikum, hello blogosphere!
*blows off dust*

Yes, it has indeed been a very long time, I suppose I owe you tonnes of updates right? So my last post was about EXAMS. Guess what? The post-traumatic stress from my 2nd professional exam is still lingering on my nerves! Anyhow, alhamdulillah managed to get into third year of dental school. It's not going to get any easier, I can tell by the scary stressful vibes I'm getting from the lecturers, but neither does life!

Now, back to the title of this post.....bridezilla. Lol, never would I have imagined having that word being related to me in this time-frame but you know what people say, "life happens when you're busy making plans". It all happened in the month of Ramadhan, and speaking of it, hope it is still not too late to wish Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri to all my Muslim readers!

Ramadhan this year was an eventful month to me, and to Mr. D (jeng jeng, mysterious tak?) because what we've been hoping for finally surfaced to reality, and for that I can never be thankful enough. 

It's true guys, Ramadhan is a special month filled with blessings and forgiveness and when the hearts are softer.. I, we, took the opportunity and laid out our wishes to those who play a big role in our lives and left the rest to Allah swt. Alhamdulillah, everything worked out well and in sya Allah we'll be starting the rest of our forever Oct next year. Yup there it is, bridezilla is.. moi! :) Please pray that everything goes smoothly <3

(This is actually the beginning of this post, lol! )

What is a bridezilla?

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
  • bride whose behavior is seen as demanding or unreasonable. The word uses the -zilla suffix derived from the Japanese movie monster Godzilla.

and here's another accurate definition from urban dictionary:

One ridiculous spoiled bitch that thinks she is the center of the universe, just because her "show" (the wedding) is 18 months from now. Everyone else in the world has to drop everything and come running in this prime-donna's mind. The marriage will not last more than a couple of years,if the groom to be is lucky.
"Man, get a load of that bridezilla. We should warn him that he will never have another blow job after getting married."


I do not want to be one. Seriously though, the wedding that I have in my head is just a simple, no-fuss , intimate wedding. Initially, I thought converting those images in my head into real life situations would be achievable. I thought wrong; it's def easier imagined than done.
Because, the word simple goes poof! once there's venues to research, dulang hantaran, deco, flowers, colour themes, bridesmaids list, guest list (whoaa this is the hardest), wedding dress, reception dress, logistics, food, catering, pelamin, doorgift and the list just goes on and on and on...
Thank god for the existence of Pinterest for helping me to at least organize ideas and thoughts through images. Now I have boards for everything! You can check out my wedding board here. I'll be sharing a structured post on the "things to do once you're engaged" next !
Till my next (not so) bridezilla post, peace & love !

xx



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